The problems were small at first.
A mess in the bathroom. Late nights out without a phone call. Missing a planned dinner at a restaurant with friends.
In the end, however, the fact that your husband continued to introduce all of of these small problems into your life seemed rather insignificant when you realized that there was a much bigger problem. A pretty problem. A problem with a name and two kids, but a bigger problem all the same.
When you realized that your husband was having an affair, and that he had been for three years, the other smaller problems seemed to make sense. They angered you, but they made sense. The mess in the bathroom caused by a schedule that was so tight it barely left your husband time to get ready for work. The late nights out were times when he was at events wit